Is There Life After Food, Drink and Sex?
Saturday 26 September 2020, 3pm - 5pm
Venue: - Cafe Brunelli, 187 Rundle St · Adelaide
About Focus Questions: a) Please read them before you come to the meetup. Think about them so you have more than "instant opinions" to offer. b) Feel free to add more focus questions. c) THE FOCUS QUESTIONS ARE JUST A MENU TO CHOOSE FROM. From this menu we can discuss whatever seems interesting. d) Focus questions are not intended to push one viewpoint! You can adopt any position you wish. We actually like friendly disagreement - it can lead to deeper understanding
1. Life in Adelaide tends to be rather comfortable. The natural environment is good. Food, drink and (probably) sex are celebrated in sprawling family suburbs and a generous amount of cafe dining, pubs & entertainment. Is anything missing?
2. What are people really looking for in a discussion meetup like DX4? It seems that the pleasure of exploring ideas is not enough (indeed many people seem to find competing ideas aversive). If I run a discussion meetup in a place where there is no food or drink, most people won't come. In fact, some are even choosy about attending if the venue is not 'classy' enough (as I learned trying to run the meetup in a food court). An attempt at Zoom discussion meetups also died.
3. Food, drink and sex are a primal source of happiness. In one way or another, their consumption or pursuit drive most human (and animal) activity. Yet, in one way or another, they also cause more unhappiness than anything else. Many religions push the philosophy that unhappiness can be restricted by limiting the desire for food, drink and sex. What is your view on this? Why?
4. Suppose you wake up one morning in a place like Damascus or Beirut and find that your partner and children have been killed, the apartment you were finally able to buy has been blown up, your workplace has been destroyed. What would you aim for now? [This is a terrible question that has confronted millions of people throughout history]
5. How firmly is your social class established, and the people you are able to meet, controlled by where you go to eat and drink outside your home? Do people really go to expensive restaurants for the quality of the food, or for the class of people they hope to be seen among?
6. How would we change as a species if eating, drinking and having sex were set by impersonal regulation and enforced by robot overlords? [Recall that this has been exactly the situation historically in the world's many slave cultures]
7. Has self indulgence (measured in waistlines and SUVs) brought greater happiness? What are the downsides of easy living? Could Australians survive without importing immigrant and temporary labour to do the heavy lifting? My impression over the decades has been that Australian culture has become increasingly self-indulgent, especially compared to the desperate struggle for survival during the Great Depression of the 1930s, and terror of near invasion and death from imperial Japan in World War !!.
8. Some religious institutions promote celibacy as a way to focus followers' minds on things spiritual. Has this been a credible strategy? Historically, certain kinds of scholars have found religious retreats a good, undisturbed venue for research and scholarship. Is there any evidence that this is s still viable?
9. Why are places that specialize in knowledge, like universities, seen by most people as pretentious and 'impractical'? Humans are natural predators, both amongst their own kind, and across other species. The predation was originally driven by food and sex (i.e. species survival). But actual survival now depends upon much more complex knowledge.
10. Why is there this division and resentment between advanced knowledge workers who need to ask deep questions and the general public? Why do you think that most people are content with magical thinking? For example people learn how to push buttons to make things like smart phones and cars operate, but most really have no interest in HOW these things work. That's magic. They have no real idea how modern economies or governments work. That's magic. Food, sex, a family are important to them, but not how things really work. Many of them resent the small minority who do know how things work. They don't mind the rich, but they don't like people who seem to have more knowledge than them. Is there a way around this dilemma?
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